A DNI is not an actually enforceable boundary. You can say 'I don't want people who like chocolate milk to read my tunglr posts', but that desire on your end doesn't supercede someone else's privacy. There's no obligation for choccy milk enjoyers to disclose that personal info to you, a stranger.
It's really wild to me, personally, to see someone framing a person not being public about their freaky sexual interests with online randos as some kind of deception.
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Yeah I just answered another anon message about this, haha, and tbh I do see that one point: when a proshipper actively befriends someone who they KNOW is an anti and has "proshippers DNI" in their bio. I do think that's more along the lines of deception. But does that really happen? XD All the
