It's both.
Lingerie and other forms of "looking good" aren't worn "for" me.
But I've said it before, one of my favorite things w/ women is watching them dress or undress and the ritual that goes into them pampering themselves.
So while I want who I want, wear the thing because you want to.
menfolk & other identifying lovers of ladies: are y'all still into lingerie or is it more "regardless of the wrapping, I want it"?
I'mma still wear it cuz I like it, but interested in understanding if partners are out there who actually appreciate it still