The full reality of gendered oppression isn't as simple as only "cis men abusing cis women". It is a massive hierarchical gendered framework that demands compliance of all of us, and harms every single one of us except those at the very top of the pyramid.
I honestly think the majority of cis people are upset by trans existence, especially nonbinary existence, because as children we were all told there were things we weren't allowed to do or be or feel or say because we were a girl, or because we were a boy.
I honestly think that's unhealed trauma. 🧵