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Lydia Cole

@lydiacolemusic.bsky.social

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Writing songs to make sense of life since 2003.

Find my music wherever you stream 🎵 My merch, Substack and more at linktr.ee/lydiacole

Bluesky will probably be where I have social/political/existential convos.

  1. 🤯 This show reminded me of things I had completely forgotten: 1) Live music is medicine and probably witchcraft 2) Auckland music is a community and there are so many people in it who I love 3) Leaving the house ain't all bad (I already had my suspicions).

    I can't wait for Tom's new album.

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  2. God, about time. I started having endometriosis pain in different parts of my torso and asked my GP to refer me for a scan (imaging which is standard in other parts of the world) and she told me there is literally nothing like that in this whole country 🫠 #endometriosis

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  3. I learned something amazing this week - that when we go through something traumatising, our brain logs exactly what happened and that we survived. So even if the way we coped was not ideal, our brain logs it as The Way To Survive, and that's how we carry forward "maladaptive" survival behaviours 🤯

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  4. Re: coercive control by powerful/adored men: "Importantly, this control can be subtle. It is often hidden behind performative niceness – hard to see and harder to prosecute."

    I once knew a man like that (not the one you think). He's still out there being "nice" 😈

    www.rnz.co.nz/life/culture...

    Brad Pitt is part of a well-established pattern of powerful men in Hollywood who rebound from scandal quickly, and with seemingly little repercussion, writes Jamilla Rosdahl.

    The celebrity halo effect: why abuse allegations against powerful men like Brad Pitt are so easily forgotten

    Brad Pitt is part of a well-established pattern of powerful men in Hollywood who rebound from scandal quickly, and with seemingly little repercussion, writes Jamilla Rosdahl.

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  5. Thanks Tanya! 🥲 I could easily share dozens of photos of this publication, I've only skimmed it but already read some very fascinating and tragic stories. I hope whoever picks it up scours all the goodness.

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