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Lauren Southern’s new memoir reveals her "painful attempts to contort herself into an archetypical tradwife,” writes our columnist Michelle Goldberg. “Her story should be a cautionary tale for the young women who aspire to the domestic life she once evangelized for.”

Being an anti-feminist, it turns out, is no shield against abusive male power.

Opinion | A Right-Wing Influencer Tried to Be a Tradwife. It Almost Broke Her.

Being an anti-feminist, it turns out, is no shield against abusive male power.

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  1. I don’t actually care that this happened to her, if she wants people to not wish her the worst she should probably not be such a racist piece of shit

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  2. Let's stop rewarding people who turned their back on the obvious advances in society for money and 'simplicity' that was always bullshit

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  3. It's 2025. I knew this shit back in 1995. I have a hard time empathizing with women who spit in the faces of the women who fought for their rights before them. Don't get me wrong. If you want to be a traditional wife, by all means do that. If you're going to shame others for not...

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  4. I would like to take that subheading and punch people with it. Oh, being anti-feminist doesn't stop male violence? WHAT A SHOCK. How could the Times have predicted.

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  5. I have zero sympathy. Right wingers are always complaining that the thing they voted for or championed are hurting them. They should feel the consequences of their short-sighted actions and thoughts.

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  6. “It seems particularly dangerous to tie one’s fate to a man who is part of an internet subculture obsessed with female submission.

    Unfortunately, the women who most need to hear this message probably won’t listen...”

    Yup

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  7. She earned it. And this is the bane of our culture these days.

    Rehab the worst perpetrators when they are subjected to their own medicine.

    Liz Cheney, Adam Kinzinger,...this monster.

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  8. I’m not going to feel sorry for some idiot who spread right wing nonsense on the internet right up until the point they hurt themselves in the process.

    Why don’t you do a story about the people whose lives were negatively impacted by her BS as opposed to giving her yet another promotional avenue?

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  9. Duh. I was raised in the 60s expected to marry & do all that crap that the idiotic "trad-wives" are pushing. I saw how my mother lived, how her friends, how my friend's mothers lived, how some drank or took "mommy's little helper" pills or locked their kids out of the house to cope. Propagandists.

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  10. Yeah, she can literally and figuratively go eat ALL the bags of dicks for all i care.

    Life comes at you fast, doesn't it Lauren?

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  11. Trad wife

    Unless you're having 9 kids, living on a farm, and illiterate, then you're not a "trad wife".

    Rightwingers really have no idea how women were in the past. Many of them worked in factories, fisheries, farms, and were treated like garbage.

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  12. Oh no… did someone who causes pain without consideration of others have a bad experience??? Let’s write about in The NY Times!!!

    F*cking joke of a rag garbage paper.

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  13. tradwives, anti-vax, groypers, romanticizing manufacturing - these are the true hallmarks of degeneracy, of a society so bored with what its forebears bled and died to achieve that it tries to destroy it all

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  14. MAGA men are just thrilled when women fall right into their plot to destroy us as individuals and relegate us to positions of servitude and baby machines. The problem is that they begin to see all women that way, when we are not.

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  15. That’s cool people are discovering first and second wave feminism from first principles, but it’s just kinda unnecessary if they’d just go read a book about it.

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  16. She’s a disgusting bigot who caused a lot of harm with her bigotry and I’m glad for every iota of her suffering and would increase it if I could, hope this helps ♥️

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  17. No one should buy or read this garbage. No one needs to read the "cautionary tale" of a shit person. All you are doing is rewarding her.

    (goes for the aiders/enablers of authoritarianism too: the NYT)

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  18. "I always believed the leopards deserved to eat some of my face, and I felt like it would be good for my career as an influencer. But when they ate my face a little too much and it hurt, I couldn't continue"

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  19. The funny thing about patriarchy if you’re a woman is that YOU’LL NEVER EVER BE ON THE “IN” CROWD. EVER. Bless her delusional, hateful heart for thinking she would be.

    ALT: a fairy sitting on a mushroom with the words " you 're living in never-never land "
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  20. So this absolute moron instructs people to do a bunch of obviously dip-shitted nonsense that turns out to be some really stupid and self-destructive shit and then...she's gifted with prime real estate in the "paper of record" for her abject and destructive failures?

    Stop subscribing to NYTimes.

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  21. The author of this article is Michelle Goldberg, a prolific TERF and supporter of far right policies on trans people, so naturally she would be glazing a white nationalist under the guise of “feminism”.

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  22. This is her 3rd attempt to sanitize her image and get some sympathy attention. Meanwhile she’s still a racist who tried to kill migrants. Her alt-right Nazi shit is still there, living inside her like maggots.

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  23. She had to learn this again? She briefly figured out in 2017 that her fellow white nationalists hated women and got hounded out of their scene for it

    Maybe she should stop being addicted to the grift

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  24. Data paywall. Gfy. You won't get my info. Either I give you money directly or you skim off me in the background your so evil. News was always free why'd that change?

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  25. Yikes, I really admired Michelle Goldberg, thought she was able to see the tentacles of fascism in American life.

    Tell us about the good people of the moment, not promoting the racists with performative regret for a paycheck. Big ICK

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  26. It’s a hell of a move to cash in by first spewing a bunch of hateful bullshit views, then cash in a second time by writing about how the people who shared her hateful bullshit views weren’t nice to her.

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  27. It's incredible that one of the most prestigious and once-respected periodicals in the history of this country gives people like this space to bitch and moan about their own very obvious stupidity and poor choices to just be shit people. Fuck all of NYT and fuck Lauren. You both made your own beds.

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    Lauren Southern will literally say anything for money. She's a monster and I hope that self inflicted wound was extra painful.

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  29. Sorry the trad wife stuff didn't work out, Lauren, at least you have snarling gutter racism to fall back on.

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  30. When you can no longer grift the right, you write a memoir you can sell to dumbass liberals. Just go after a different audience, you never even have to change what you actually believe!

    When that's no longer profitable, you go straight back to monetizing your conservatism.

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  31. Just a reminder that you can support someone who experienced abuse AND not forgive them for perpetuating harmful beliefs and policies.

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  32. I married a man I hardly knew, moved to another country, gave the man all my money, couldn't please him with my high heels and dresses, disobeyed him and am baffled it didn't work out

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