I have been seeing a lot of videos with young women starting off a conversation on the first date by asking who he voted for…
Yes, girls. That’s how you do it. ❤️
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At this point, yes. I could not even.
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Lysistrata. (The benefits of a classical education that I didn't really use professionally.)
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Ask before you even go on the date. Save yourself some time.
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Oh didn’t you hear? Bill says that is too woke to ask that of a man because, she is relegating herself to a miserable life as a single woman. (it’s fine if you’re a lifelong bachelor) She should focus on being protected by a man more than she should want a partner whose views align with hers
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And I know people that stopped going to a trivia night because MAGAs had been invited to join their group. 👏 Nope. Can't do it! Solid no for me. It's that important.
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My first question is "Did you vote?"
My second question is "Who did you vote for?"
Either question can disqualify them
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Might as well weed them out early
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I’m glad I’m married. I would have to do the same as these ladies. There no way I could date a Trumper.
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Any man who voted red has either no regard for women as human beings, OR he's too stupid to realize what his vote really stands for.
Either way, RUN!
We have to stop trying to teach men how to be better human beings, when they don't even think of us as fully human.
#MakeThemLonelier
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A very wise tactic. It speaks volumes & will save you a lot of time. You can quickly say "Bye-bye. Next candidate."
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Absolutely. Because he won’t change.
And don’t accept that “I don’t care about politics.” That’s a dead giveaway
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I would ask before the first date so my time isn’t wasted and I’m safe at home, away from some MAGA psycho.
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But watch for tells that he's lying because MAGAs and the truth have a complicated relationship.
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I did and 7 yrs later so happy we agree on our hatred of the felon.
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Hey I'm older and I do this. Also ask if they could pass a criminal record check, and what their blood pressure is (don't want to be anyone's nurse). I'm halfway kidding here.
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That's perfect
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Without question. And be aware -- they will lie. So watch for signs...
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Dating must be so much easier now with that one simple question.
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I don't know how couples do it, being at opposite political signs.
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The advantage of being an expat in Germany, is that no AfD voter (Vance's friends) would ever date me 😂 I'm their worst nightmare: a white hetero male, with no German origins, supporting Ukraine, defending human rights and with enough culture to counter their stupid propaganda 🤣
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If they say they don’t like to discuss politics… run
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If he says “I don’t really follow politics,” just go ahead and ask for the check. You’re dating a red flag in khakis.
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That would be the pre-first date question for me these days.
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Find out before the date and save yourself a couple hours.
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First line on the online dating profile.
If you voted for Trump, I will swipe right
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crazy it has come to this - plus they lie!
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That's my first question when I meet them. No Kamala vote, no date.
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"Save yourself a lot of grief, in the long run." I can almost hear my Mom saying.
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In these times I think it's a absolute deal breaker. Men should do the same.
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It'll tell you EVERYTHING you need to know!
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I'd just say if his answer isn't along the lines of "which election/what year?" there may need to be some follow up questions.
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Tells you every thing you need to know.
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The guys will lie.
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I need to see these. That brings me joy.
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Why not ask your parents too
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This needs to be the question before a date is agreed to.
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Nice!
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😁
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I completely understand this.
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Yes, WOMEN that's how you do it really
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First question: Did you vote? Second question: For Who? Did not vote, is the same as a vote for him.
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Problem is, if you turn the guy down because he voted for Trump, it's a pretty big sea of fish when 55% of white women voted for Trump.
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“I didn’t vote” is a red flag, I’ve since found out.
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So much smarter than “sleeping with the enemy!”
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Exactly. If you vote against human rights, you're not getting access to my bed
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I turned down a date yesterday because he was happy we have a new president. It’s better to remain silent and thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
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The sentiment is great, hopefully empowerment breeds empowerment but nearly 1 out of 2 women voted for Trump. Combined with men voting for Trump at an even higher rate…not enough to flip the script.
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I ask that before the date happens.
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I love it. You can tell a type of person in how and when they use The word “woke”. Never = good person
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Before the first date
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It's very important for ladies to know if they are with a cultist or not. Just safer.
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Ask: What do you vote for?
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True. But....men have just started lying.
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Young men still have to lie to get l@id.
Some 'things' never change.
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A friend split from her fiancee because she found out he voted for Trump.
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Seems like that would be something to ask before the first date.
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and then be sure by asking subtle questions later. Republicans ARE known for lying....
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My NAGA son can’t get a date in California
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Yay, I pass that test! 😇
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I would start exactly the same. In fact, I’d ask before there was ever a date.
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That makes perfect sense.
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There isn’t the slightest possibility that I would waste time with trash who voted for Piggly.
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Let the Nazi fucks die alone, their planet-killing giant trucks can keep them warm at night. Selfish pricks.
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Why waste time on a date if you don't know the answer? Ask the question BEFORE the date so you know that who you're meeting has a chance to share your values.
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Right to the point.
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I have been seeing a lot of videos with young women starting off a conversation on the first date by asking who he voted for…
Yes, girls. That’s how you do i
Yes. A lot less black eyes that way.
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That sounds like the perfect opening question. Why waste your time on losers.
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How did they let it get as far as a date without knowing?!! Should be first txt ... US trump voters are too dangerous to be meeting in person!
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If they drive a full-size American car truck or suv, you usually don't even need to ask
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I would be asking in the first 10 minutes of conversation. Forget waiting for a date.
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Seems like something to clear up BEFORE meeting a stranger
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Tell them off the bat: if you voted for Trump in 2024, don't waste my time.
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I don’t get to a first date situation without asking well beforehand, I won’t even give my number to someone if they voted that way….
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Those dates don’t happen in the world I know. Avoid serial killers too, but they’re harder to screen.
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only way to go!
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When I am meeting someone new and they want to go out, I always ask them who their favorite Supreme Court justice is. 👩⚖️
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Yes, please go full Chi-raq/Lysistrata on these undateable ignorant pathetic man babies. You deserve better.
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I’d want to know that prior to agreeing to a first date.
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I’d cross check it too
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ABSOFUCKUINLOUTLY
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Better to ask before they go on the date.
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I approve that message.
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First off, everyone is political. So don't fall for anyone saying they're not. Red flag #1.
Red flag #2: If their beliefs can't be summarized with "Live and let live."
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I have dropped friends who voted trump, medical offices with Fox on, and even family that wear THE red hat. I don’t need that degree of hate and stupid in this short and precious life
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Weed out the crap from the get go.
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One of the first things my (now) wife and I spoke about before we started dating was whether she was a democrat and pro-choice. We both answered “yes” and here we are happily married for 16 years.
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Seems like there should be a pre-screening process…
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The correct answer is “The Democrat,” fellow American guys. Of course, she’ll want to see your voter registration. Be prepared.
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Wouldn’t it be a significant waste of time to NOT find out asap who you’re getting to know.
Ask!
… before there’s any complications 👍🏼
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Two minds on this. I like a world where voting choices are considered private information. But, you can ask questions and have a discussion that reveals a person's values and political orientation. And no, no MAGA man should get laid. Ever. If being MAGA had that effect, there would be real change.
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It’s also how my son does it (we live in the South). No sense wasting your time.
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Y'all women tolerate too much bullshit from men.
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Personally, I think this goes both ways. Guys should be asking the same question at dates. Plenty of maga women out there.
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Yikes. Like trying to meet a single, older GenX in the Ozarks with at least 20 years sober isn't already hard enough. I am honestly thankful to not give a crap about dating anymore.
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Right now, that tells you all you need to know. Unless, of course, he is wrapped in a bear skin and holding a club and is cowardly, then there is no need to ask.
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Great idea? But if they catch on they will just lie anyway. They always do to get what they want.
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My daughter’s ask before the first date.
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This is how I'll be making friends: "Did you still support Trump after the first 100 days?" If yes, BYEEEEEEEEEEE.
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I am a brit and centrist and still don't get dates lol 🙃 😅 sad 😞 but true
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I'd ask before the date. I'm not wasting a bit of makeup on some maga clown.
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Good girls!!!! 💙🇺🇸
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As they should! All true patriots should!
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Guaranteed way to end up with a soy boy!
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And if he voted for a candidate that believes in disenfranchising women, get up and leave!
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I love all the guys who get offended by this idea.
"What do you mean, my core values matter for our compatibility? Can't you just ignore my beliefs and actions and date me anyway?"
Really makes it clear what they think relationships are.
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Start that before meeting them!
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Yep! Every day. Do it, girls.
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If I was young again and dating, my initial question would be, are you a Magat/KKKaren? The laughter 🤣 or phone hang-up would save us both a lot of time.
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Think twice before answering to such disgusting questions from fake websites.
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For our second date, my wife took me to see a movie called The Corporation to see if our politics aligned. youtu.be/dpjypnxnS4U?...
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OMG I can’t express how much girls and ladies SHOULD do this!! I tried to look past and after so much you simply realize that it does matter because what if things would ever end up like they are now. You have to KNOW..that’s your safe spot no matter what for real for real.
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PLEASE DO THIS! we want them to know they are shit
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I’m an old girl and screened for Trumpers, as well! Wow did they get pissy when I asked!
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It’s how I would do it if I had any patience for ANYBODY LOL
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Not voting (without good reason such as the dog ate my ballot) should also be a deal breaker
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Older women ask too. No way in hell am I going backwards at my age.
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Could clarify their character for sure!
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I did it before agreeing to spend any of my limited life energy going to said date
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That’s a pre-date question now.
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Who they voted for, whether they thought masks were a good idea during COVID, whether they believe in vaccination, masks... LGBTQ+ and immigrant rights, and whether they think it is ok to send people to concentration camps out of the country...
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You should know that before you say yes. If you're online dating that must be in your bio.
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That’s a question to ask before you agree to the date, not across the table once you’re there 🤦♀️
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It’s the biggest red flag!! I don’t date much but on my dating app profile it says “if you voted for trump we have very different values and won’t be a good match”.
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As an older gal,I want the youngers to speak up and not just go along and keep quiet. Don't be coerced gals!
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I can't and will not date a maga guy. Period!
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Hell I would ask before I even agreed to a date.
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Granddaughter brought a young man to meet me. That was my first question
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Makes perfect sense -the Rightwing's goal has been to force their politics to breach the private sphere
Now they reap what they've been sowing for the past 40 years
can the rest of us help it if they've made THEMSELVES unattractive?!
we're supposed to feel SORRY for them?
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Smart women!
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Not just the young women, but us older women too.
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Better get it over and done with, so as not to waste time.
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I 100 percent find that out before I even agree to a date.
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Great strategy! THEN bring up some issues that are dealing breakers. Weed the wackos out early.
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We don't ask on dates. We state in our profiles to kick rocks if you voted some stupid kinda way... they don't even get dates anymore.
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Smile 😁 it's demm funny.
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Echos of the Greek play Lysistrata, 411 bc.
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Ask before the first date!!
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Indeed. Seek respect...
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I’m not even sure I’d make it to the first date. Get that nonsense out of the way before wasting any of your time.
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Anyone that would vote for the right to rape, right to own women, needs to be slapped to the curb. There should be an App that checks their political donations and voting record.
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I'm here to tell you older women are doing the same thing and make no bones about it. We are getting hammered with the sick INCELS too!
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Get the big questions out of the way early, but if you're still in college realize that a lot of people change a lot during and in the first five years after. Wait it out. No rush.
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Yes, boys & girls. That’s how you do it. ❤️
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TBH I would be very sacred if the first thing a man asked me on a first date was "Who did you vote for?" ..
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Shouldn’t they ask BEFORE they agree to a date??
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And remember— if it’s either “tRump,” or “I didn’t bother,” you can get up and leave. Immediately.
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Asking before accepting that first date would be the way to do it.
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Definitely. And if I was single and looking for a girlfriend I'd ask her the same question. Because if she voted for Trump I want no part of the 🦇💩 crazy non-logic that went into that choice. Any woman who voted for Trump is mentally compromised. 2x if they're black (also for black men). Like WTF?!?
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That’s a pre-first date question. I’m not going to waste my time.
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I’m not young, but this is how I do it. I get there early & get a beverage. I ask a few questions before we order food. If there’s an issue it’s easy to just leave $ for my beverage on the table & walk out without engaging further.
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Omg! That's what I used to do back when I was single! I didn't even wait til the first date, id always ask in the early Q&As - no point wasting anyone's time 😁
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Tangentially related, at work, I am asking my outside counsel whether their firm will oppose or make a deal with Trump. I will fire whatever firm bends the knee.
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First contact should be the time to ask, no need for a face-to-face if you can avoid it
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I’m not going to lie - I wouldn’t have dated my now husband if he voted for Bush. And seriously if he did - he could possibly be MAGA now.
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❤️. If you’re not talking about it, you’re not paying attention.
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Wait, who goes on a first date without having covered this already???
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As a guy, it’s the first question I’d ask before ever considering asking her out on a date.
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I did same with my present husband almost 40 years ago. I did not want to get trapped in another white supremacist, man is the head, Christian patriarchy marriage. The first one was short & a bullet dodged though he exited with my life savings because he was a vindictive shit. I was well rid of him.
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I ask before deciding whether to accept
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Why even get to that point I’d say ask at first contact
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I'm not dating any Maga men. I find out quietly 🤫
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Hey @piperformissouri.bsky.social we older women ask, too! I'm now 60, started dating my guy in 2017 after he renounced his decades long membership in GOP. He & I are ACTIVE Dems in Nebraska 💙
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I typically start off a conversation on the first data with "how big is it?" and "are your swimmers hungry for some grade A nookie???" Momma's clock be a ticking and we gotta be building the army for the future!!
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And please don't EVER let a man force his beliefs to become your own. The only thing worse than a maga asshole is the woman who's sticking by him adopting his views.
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My body and looks are a 2, but I voted for Kamala, so that makes me a solid 12!
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I can imagine that, who wants to date a Trump voter?
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Fuck that. I’m asking BEFORE the first date.
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Thanks on giving tips on how to dodge a bullet.
With regards, a male
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The second question should be about whether or not he likes animals.
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This is the way!
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The threat of an unwanted pregnancy, the rise in the incel/wannabe rapist podcasts, the patriarchal 'keep 'em compliant, subservient' ideal...
Is why independent, educated women should just choose sanity, cuddling with their pets, hanging out w/ their girls safely inside the home they own/rent.
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Jess, I wonder just what percentage of guys are MAGA? Is there any feed back on that?
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If you are on any dating apps, just put it on your profile “If you voted for Trump, just scroll on by”. Then you don’t even have to talk to the mofos.
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Ask that when he asks you on the date in the first place. Why risk wasting any time.
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I mean it’s the perfect question — nobody has to waste time.
But then, at this point, I’m just trying not to be fitted for red robes and a white bonnet. Dating would be like having a 3rd job.
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Exactly!! Don’t waste time dating someone who voted for a rapist!
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I prefer to know before a first date can be secured
